She may be beautiful but if she resembles any of these stereotypes, you may want to think twice.
Before you get in too deep with a lady, here are five signs that she’s not the right girl to jump into bed with;
1. The Girl Who’s Super Insecure
Confidence is sexy. And insecurity is, well, a good sign that you might want to wait before sleeping with her, says sex therapist Kat Van Kirk, author of The Married Sex Solution: A Realistic Guide to Saving Your Sex Life.
Women with poor self-esteem could often look for validation through sex,” Van Kirk explains. “She could get attached very quickly.” A woman who’s always denigrating herself—especially her looks—isn’t the best choice for a casual relationship.
2. The Gold Digger
You don’t have to be rich to attract people who want to take advantage of you. If she gives off a sense of entitlement—for example, if she never offers to pay for a date, or she talks about previous relationships as though they were transactions—sex with her probably comes with some pricey strings attached.
“You want to try to figure out her value system,” Van Kirk says. “Does she think sex is enjoyable, or does she see it as a way of getting what she wants?”
3. The Party Animal
Party girls are often awesome—but if you’ve never seen her sober, it’s time to step away. “If she can’t have fun without getting drunk, that’s a sign she’s uncomfortable with the situation,” Van Kirk explains. “It’s also a sign that she may not have TAP HERE TO CONTINUE READING